50-50 Rule

In the July issue of Woman's Day magazine there's a two page feature on Home Instead's 50-50 Rule program. The 50-50 Rule is designed to help siblings overcome differences and make the best care decisions for elderly parents with Alzheimer's, dementia and other struggles with aging.

Manage the challenge of Alzheimer's & dementia care by sharing the care plan.

Use this checklist to help you and your sibling better manage the care of your senior loved one.

Identify Your Senior’s Needs
List everything your parent has or needs to remain safe and independent. Consider medical issues, end-of-life care and decisions, and daily living activities, such as grocery shopping, transportation and monthly bill paying.

Research Your Options
Do your homework. Research available resources to help meet your senior’s needs, including your local agency on aging, eldercare services and websites. Check with your church, family and friends.

Divide the Caregiving Workload
Split up the caregiving workload among siblings. Make sure that everyone has input and that responsibilities are distributed as evenly as possible. Flexibility, compromise and open communication are key.

Promote Sibling Teamwork
Set up regular times to communicate with siblings, whether it be weekly phone calls and family meetings, or simple email updates.

The program offers education and support for sibling caregivers. Learn more about Home Instead's 50-50 Rule at solvingfamilyconflict.com or calling our office at 953-3720.